Can you trick a narcissist?

 1. Distract yourself and relax.

Here is another trick that can help you deal with this situation with ease and humor.

Imagine that there is a giant aquarium with thick walls between you and your manipulator.

Sound can’t go through these walls.

You can only see this person’s lips move, but you have no idea what they are talking about at the moment.

• Understanding Their Point of View: If you understand a narcissist's inflated sense of self-importance and lack of empathy, you can come up with answers that are in their own best interest. For example, if you want them to help with housework, instead of saying, "You need to contribute," say, "You're really good at organizing. Can you put the living room together?"
• Positive reinforcement is something that narcissists often want. If you tell them what they do well, they may be more likely to do what you ask. For example, telling them how good they are at driving might get them to do more driving.
• Redirecting Conversations: If they start talking about themselves, gently bring them back to the topic at hand. If they start bragging about their work while you're talking about plans for the weekend, say softly, "Yes, that's impressive. Now, let's get back to planning the picnic."
• Keeping firm limits: Narcissists may try to get you to break your own rules. Stay strong. If they ask to borrow your car for the third time this week, you could tell them, "I understand your need, but I've already told you about my policy on lending my car."
• Repetition Technique: This is when you stick to your point even when people try to get you to talk about something else. For example, if they are trying to avoid taking responsibility for a mistake, keep saying it until they agree.
• Use the Grey Rock Method. To avoid being manipulated, this method is to be as dull and unresponsive as possible. If they're trying to get you into a heated argument, give short, factual, and non-emotional answers.
• Don't Play Their Game: Narcissists may try to get you to feel something so they can take advantage of your weakness. Instead, respond calmly and logically to keep the situation under control. Take a deep breath and say, "That's an interesting point of view" if they insult you.
• Avoid "tricks for tricks": It might be tempting to "trick" a narcissist as a way to get back at them, but it's important to keep your word. Instead of trying to outsmart them, you should focus on keeping your mental health and handling the relationship in a healthy, respectful way.